How to work through customer conflicts

Have you ever had an upset customer?

Take heart; we all have.

Surprisingly, studies show that 96 percent of dissatisfied clients don’t complain. At least not to you.

Studies also show that of the customers who complain, 54 and 70 percent will do business again with the organization if the complaint is resolved. The figure soars to an incredible 95 percent if the client feels that the complaint was resolved quickly.

In addition, if you handle your customer’s situation when they complain using the insights in this article, not only might you keep that client, but you may also be able to turn them into a customer evangelist for your company.

Word-of-mouth is the most effective form of marketing for your business since up to 80 percent of consumer choices result from personal recommendations from family, friends, or online resources.

“Treat Me the Way I Want to Be Treated”

One of the ways to provide excellent customer service is through “personality-based issue resolution,” as discussed by Matthew Dixon, Nick Toman, and Rick Delisi in their book The Effortless Experience.

The authors relay the results of the efforts of Bradford & Bingley, a United Kingdom-based financial services firm, which reported a 20 percent increase in “willingness to recommend” and a 40 percent decrease in repeat customer calls after using this approach.

It’s a process that allows you to make an educated guess about the personality profile of any customer, typically within no more than thirty to sixty seconds.

The four basic profiles of customers (and the names I have assigned them):

1. The Analytical, who needs to analyze and understand

2. The Amiable, who leads with their emotional needs

3. The Administrator, who wants what they want when they want it

4. The Associator, who loves to talk and show off their personality

The best part, said Dixon, Toman, and Delisi, is that the process only requires you to ask no more than three questions in your quest to determine the personality of your customer:

1.      Is the customer’s issue complex? If not, you do not need to continue the diagnosis process. If the customer’s issue can be resolved quickly and easily, there is really no need to do anything besides be courteous and professional. In fact, for simple-issue situations, treat all customers as Administrators – get them what they need as quickly and politely as possible.

But if the customer’s issue is a complex one (such as a billing dispute), the authors advise listening carefully to the words the customer uses to describe their issue. Continue with these questions …

2.      Is the customer issuing clear directives? If the answer is yes, then the customer is likely an Administrator. No need to further determine their personality; just promptly and concisely answer the customer.

3. But if the answer is “no,” then ask the third and final question: Is the customer displaying “emotional” behaviors? If not, they are probably Analytical. However, if the answer is yes, they are likely an Amiable or an Associator. What’s the difference? Amiable wants their personal point of view to be taken into consideration, while Associators like to entertain, joke, and chat.

How to Handle Each of the Four Personalities

The Analytical is process-oriented. Their mantra is, the authors state: Take the time to fully explain the resolution steps and allow me to talk.

Remember:

· Do not interrupt

· Explain the process of resolving the issue

· Slow down the pace of the conversation

Be sure to demonstrate

· Good listening skills

· Thoroughness

· Clarity

The Amiable is empathy-oriented. They request that you “Understand how I feel and take a sympathetic approach to resolve it.”

Remember:

· Call me by my name

· Assure me that my issue will be resolved

· Show how you are personally involved

Be sure to demonstrate the following:

· Empathy

· Patience

· Understanding

· Sincerity

The Administrator is results-oriented. They demand, “Don’t spend time on unnecessary details, just resolve my issue!” Or, as my father-in-law, Mr. Administrator Extraordinare, asserts, “Answer the question asked!”

Remember:

· Directly address my issue

· Speed up the pace of the conversation

· Provide a clear timetable for results

Be sure to demonstrate the following:

· Confidence

· Your ownership of the issue

· A “can do” attitude

The Associator is social-oriented. They will eventually get around to telling you, “Treat me like a person; don’t provide me with generic answers.”

Remember:

· Maintain an informal tone

· Do not provide scripted answers

· Mention personal information, if appropriate

Be sure to demonstrate the following:

· A sense of humor

· Creativity in your resolution

· Friendliness

Employ the Platinum Rule

The key to resolving customer issues is The Platinum Rule: “Treat your customers the way they would like to be treated, not necessarily the way that you would like to be treated.” The faster and better you are able to employ the Platinum Rule, the more issues you will be able to resolve and the more customers you will be able to retain.

A Quick Case Study

On a recent sales call, I encountered an Administrator who was yelling objections at me even before he entered the room.

I am an Analytical-Amiable, so my natural reaction would be to reply, “Oh, I’m sorry. I’ll just escape outside a side door here. You have a good life, okay?”

But something came over to me. Instead, I went over to the Administrator’s desk, picked up a book, slammed it down, and commanded, “Let me tell you something!”

I saw the Administrator straighten right up and puff out his chest. I could almost hear him thinking, “Alright, an Administrator … just like me! Let’s go at it!”

And I was thinking, “This process really works!”

“Seek First to Understand”

Do you see yourself or your employees in one (or more) of these four personality styles?

Why wait until you have conflicts in the office to employ a personality-based process to deal with others?

Be proactive! You and your employees can take a free personality-based assessment at www.personalityperfect.com. Once you get the results, discuss how you can improve interactions both within the office and with your customers.

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